Cary Hayward
EFT Level & Qualifications
Level 2: Additional
MNZAC
MANZPA
Diploma Psychotherapy
BA Psych
Post Grad Dip Education
MNZAC
MANZPA
Diploma Psychotherapy
BA Psych
Post Grad Dip Education
Address
Rooms in Whitby and Wellington CBD
Phone
027 2216871
Email
Website
From Cary:
I have had the privilege of leading the initial development of Emotionally Focused Therapy in New Zealand by bringing Dr Rebecca Jorgensen to New Zealand from 2008 to 2014.
Over this time I have worked very closely with Rebecca developing the organisation, training and practice of EFT in NZ, and have organised and hosted trainings to over 260 counsellors from NZ, Australia and the US.
Through this work I have had exposure to many training hours and many hours of conversation with Rebecca and other practitioners about the practice of EFT and its application to different aspects of relationship work.
I love working with couples, and for me EFT has brought a magic ingredient to this work. EFT focuses on the attachment dynamics in a relationship and how these influence the ways that we respond to one another and try to get what we need in our relationships – our patterns of connection and disconnection.
Once we can understand these patterns we can start to get beyond the dramas that get in the way, and to get to the places we want to be with one another. EFT helps us to move away from moments of disconnection, frustration or despair and to find our way to moments of satisfaction, connection, hope and love.
I work from a beautiful spot in Whitby with amazing views of the Pauatahanui Inlet and surrounding hills, and also from rooms in the CBD (Wellington). My website should be up in September ’15 with more information about me and the way I work.
Dr Sarah Hayward
EFT Level & Qualifications
Level 2: Additional
Child and family psychologist
MNZPS
BA(Hons)Psych
PhD
Child and family psychologist
MNZPS
BA(Hons)Psych
PhD
Address
Rooms in Whitby and Wellington CBD
Phone
021 412 702
Email
From Sarah:
My personal and professional work is with children, couples and families to support them to achieve loving relationships and wellbeing. I use the rich, attachment-based EFT approach in my work with couples and families. I have learnt that from a certain angle, love involves the desire to fully understand the experience of the other. I help people to understand themself, their partner, and the patterns that help or hinder the relationship, so that couples can be who they want to be with each other.
Prior to moving to New Zealand in 2005, I worked as a therapist and researcher for the Parenting and Family Support Centre, University of Queensland in Brisbane for over 10 years and am an accredited trainer for Triple P-Positive Parenting Program. In addition to working with couples, I specialise in working with parents, step-parents and foster parents to nourish their relationships with their children and to support children to develop to their potential.
I run a small private practice in Wellington. I am also a Principal Advisor, Development, Monitoring and Investigations at the Office of the Children's Commissioner, where I am responsible for monitoring Oranga Tamariki-Ministry for Children sites and residences to improve policy and practice for vulnerable children.
I completed my PhD in public health from the Queensland University of Technology in 2003. The topic of my PhD research was school-based mental health promotion. I have authored several articles on family risk factors, promoting family mental health, and the identification of children at risk of developing behavioural or emotional problems.
